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Loosing you Kids Through Divorce?


child custody loosing kids in divorce ending your marriage TheLoveTruthOne of the greatest challenges that you have to face as a couple in the event of risking your divorce is what’s going to happen to the kids and the house. Are you comfortable with the thought of losing your kids? Will your kids really be comfortable without the love of the other parent? How much are you really willing to sacrifice for the love that you have for your kids?

Research has it that most marriages break when either of the spouses reach the age of 35 and 40 years. It is advisable that for the sake of the love that you have for both your spouse and kids, you find a way to seek the advice of either other couples or consult a marriage counsellor.

When push comes to shove and the only solution is having a divorce, you need to take into consideration the fact that your kids may not only physically lose the other parent but they may lose themselves since most kids tend to have a low self-esteem and the assumption that most parents have is that the kids will find solace in the fact that other kids have dealt well with a divorce; no kid is ever comfortable with a divorce and in future there is a higher possibility of them having a divorce too.

If you move out with your kids to a new house, you may not possibly have enough time for them as you will be preoccupied with your financial status. It is however not advised to choose between the house and kids but rather find a way of overcoming the obstacles you are facing.